最近,电视剧爱情公寓中角色林宛瑜重新翻红。
在席卷社交平台的宛瑜文学中
女孩们在剧中模范宛瑜写信的情节
向我们诉说全新的人生理解
一篇相关短视频文案如是阐述:“2012年宛瑜朝背后开了一枪,2023年正中无数少女眉心。直至今日,宛瑜的飞机才真正落地,她想要的是自由自在生活,而展博想要的是安定下来,有自己的家庭、事业、孩子。人生是旷野不是轨道,原来人生不只爱情,实现自我价值也同样重要。
A related short video copy states: "Wanyu shot in the back in 2012 and hit countless girls in the middle of the eyebrow in 2023." Until today, Wan Yu's plane really landed. What she wanted was to live a free life, while Zhan Bo wanted to settle down and have her own family, career, and children. Life is a wilderness, not a track. It turns out that life is not only love, but also the realization of self-worth. "
这样一段没有华丽辞藻铺垫的文字,却诉说出了当下无数独立女性的心声一自由并非可望而不可求的梦想,而是21世纪每个人追求理想生活的权利。可以说,只要有想法,每个人都能像林宛瑜一样在人生的岔路口选择自己想要的自由
Such a text without gorgeous words lays the groundwork, but it tells the voice of countless independent women at present-freedom is not a dream that can be expected but impossible, but the right of everyone to pursue an ideal life in the 21st century. It can be said that as long as there is an idea, everyone can choose the freedom they want at the fork in life like Lin Wanyu.
自古以来,女性都成为为了家庭、孩子操劳一辈子的代名词,她们常常由于生儿育女而放弃了诗和远方。然而,进入新时代以来,女性不用再被捆绑在诸多限制因素当中,可以更大胆地表达出自我的想法,不再顾忌个体意识与传统观念带来的矛盾。
Since ancient times, women have become synonymous with working for their families and children all their lives, and they often give up poetry and distance because they have children. However, since entering the new era, women no longer have to be tied up in many limiting factors, can more boldly express their own ideas, and no longer worry about the contradiction between individual consciousness and traditional ideas.
无论是“世界那么大, 我想去看看”中自由不羁的旅行诉求,还是“上可九天揽月,下可五洋捉鳖”的高精技术工作者,女性工作范围和担当角色的扩大也将“相夫教子”的固化观念渐渐离析、女性可“书香意气吟诗作曲”,也可“展示强壮肱二头肌”一更加多元的、自由的女性角色散布在全世界各个角落。
Whether it is the free and unruly travel demand in "the World is so big, I want to see", or the highly skilled workers who "can reach the moon in the upper part and catch the turtles in the lower ocean", the expansion of women's scope of work and role will also gradually separate the solidified concept of "husband and godson", and women can "write poetry and compose poetry". It can also "show strong biceps"-a more diverse and free female character scattered around the world. It belongs to women to contribute to every profession in the world.
如此看来, 林宛瑜的自由之选是编剧的“刻意为之”吗?不,也许这个角色的塑造正是如今千千万万女性真实的折射。而其之所以塑造成功,也是因为她对人生负责的态度是当下无数名女性在现实生活中做出的正确选择。她们愿意靠自身努力与奋斗,用辛勤和汗水描摹自己未来人生的宏伟蓝图,借乘势之风,飞向终属于自己的广袤蓝天。
From this point of view, is Lin Wanyu's choice of freedom "deliberately done" by the screenwriter? No, maybe the shaping of this character is the true reflection of millions of women today. The reason for her success is that her responsible attitude towards life is the correct choice made by countless women in real life. They are willing to rely on their own efforts and struggle, with hard work and sweat to describe the grand blueprint of their future life, take advantage of the wind to fly to their own vast blue sky.
如此浩大的声势为女性自由设定了新的标准,即“远离爱情”。部分网友在“宛瑜文学”的浸润下,将困境的来源单纯归咎于爱情本身,认为是展博的爱为宛瑜铸造了牢笼,无形中更是将“独立女性”和“保持单身”之间划上等号。然而爱情与自由之间或许并不存在绝对的对立。
Such a great momentum has set a new standard for women's freedom, that is, "stay away from love". Under the infiltration of "Wanyu Literature", some netizens simply attributed the source of the predicament to love itself, believing that Zhanbo's love created a cage for Wanyu, and virtually equated "independent women" with "staying single". However, there may be no absolute opposition between love and freedom.
追求自由并不需要构筑新的对立、也并不意味着必须与亲密关系分割。应当被割舍的是在爱情中过分依附某一方,而不是爱情本身。
The pursuit of freedom does not require the construction of new antagonism, nor does it mean that it must be separated from intimacy. What should be given up is to be too attached to one party in love, not to love itself.
诚然,人生本来就没有绝对的自由,想要像宛瑜一样走遍世界的每个角落的确需要强大的经济基础。不过自由可以是大事,也可以是小事
Admittedly, there is no absolute freedom in life, and you really need a strong economic foundation to travel around every corner of the world like Wanyu. But freedom can be a big thing or a small thing.
自由,就是在有限的空间里遵循内心的想法、尽量选择舒心的生活。成为“宛瑜”并不等同于生活方式的复制粘贴。重点不在于环游世界的表象,而在于始终坚定自己的选择。成为“宛瑜”,似乎就能够对耳畔嘈杂的规训不屑一顾,从旁人构筑的美满幻境中清醒抽离,她的存在就是对“认命”的有力反击。
Freedom is to follow the inner thoughts in the limited space and try to choose a comfortable life. Becoming "Wan Yu" is not the same as copying and pasting a way of life. The point is not to travel around the world, but to always stick to your choices. As a "Wan Yu", she seems to be able to ignore the noisy discipline in her ears and sober away from the illusion of happiness built by others, and her existence is a powerful counterattack to "accepting fate."
不必嘲笑宛瑜的自由是平凡女孩的痴心妄想,豪门千金的生活方式或许难以被效仿,但宛瑜身上的强大和坚定却始终能够带来勇气。或许今时的不被理解,能够在不久的将来迎来彻悟的时刻。在这些以自由之名的瞬间里,她成为“宛喻”,也成为她自己。
Freedom is to follow the inner thoughts in the limited space and try to choose a comfortable life. Becoming "Wan Yu" is not the same as copying and pasting a way of life. The point is not to travel around the world, but to always stick to your choices. As a "Wan Yu", she seems to be able to ignore the noisy discipline in her ears and sober away from the illusion of happiness built by others, and her existence is a powerful counterattack to "accepting fate."
十年前,宛瑜的离开成为观众心中的遗憾,但好多人仿佛都忘记了,宛瑜正是因为逃婚
才出现在了电视剧中,她不止一次说过“我不要求别人,也不希望别人强求我”。无论是出场
还是离场,她永远都是不甘心拘于一隅的人,渴望独立、自由、无拘无束的生活,不想让自
己被束缚,也不想让别人为了自己而妥协。
Ten years ago, Wanyu's departure became a regret in the hearts of the audience, but many people seem to have forgotten that Wanyu appeared in the TV series because she ran away from her marriage. She said more than once, "I don't ask others, nor do I want others to force me."
Whether she enters or leaves the stage, she is always unwilling to be trapped in a corner, longing for an independent, free and unfettered life, and does not want to be bound or compromised for her own sake.
在宛瑜身上,人们看到的是作为人的主体性和价值,“理解宛瑜,成为宛瑜”,如今“林宛瑜”已不单单是电视剧中林氏国际银行的千金,而是清醒、独立、追求自由的象征。
What people see in Wanyu is the subjectivity and value of human being, "understand Wanyu and become Wanyu". Now Lin Wanyu is not only the daughter of Lin's International Bank in TV series, but also a symbol of sobriety, independence and the pursuit of freedom.